'Not only did I survive, I thrived' - Meera Syal

News imageShutterstock Meera Syal poses on the green carpet for the Olivier Awards 2023 at the Royal Albert Hall in London, Britain, 02 April 2023.Shutterstock
Dame Meera Syal's new memoir discusses her upbringing, motherhood and the challenges she encountered in her career

Dame Meera Syal has said she "almost gave up" her career after being sexually harassed and assaulted by two "predators" within the media industry.

"I was out of work, I was homeless, sleeping on people's floors, and then these two things happened in quite quick succession," the Wolverhampton-born star said in a candid interview with BBC Asian Network's Amber Haque.

In her new memoir, Vigilauntie, which was published on Thursday, the actress shared that both incidents happened in her 20s, as she was struggling to secure a role.

Now aged 65, she has opened up about the harrowing experiences and reflected on how she overcame them to become one of the most well-known faces on British TV.

News imageGoodness Gracious Me: Back Where They Came From - Picture shows Meera Syal and Nina Wadia as Delhi policewomen, Renu and Rita. Through a series of mishaps the Coopers leave England for a skiing holiday in Switzerland - only to somehow end up in India in BBC TWOs one off special, Goodness Gracious Me: Back Where They Came From.
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Syal (left) in Goodness Gracious Me! with co-star Nina Wadia

"It could have been a point where I gave up," she explained.

"It put some fire in my belly because the reason I wanted to tell these stories is that I did survive, and not only did I survive, I thrived.

"The anger of the injustice of the situation made me seek out a bunch of women that changed the course of my life."

Syal described the first incident as "my first casting couch approach".

She wrote that the man, a theatre director, insinuated he would give her a role in a pantomime if she engaged in sexual acts with him. She refused and was able to leave.

News imageDame Meera Syal a woman with chin-length brown hair and long silver earrings is wearing a navy blue blazer over a navy blue shirt with small white flowers on. She is sat behind the desk in a radio studio talking into a microphone. Behind her the wall is purple and on the right there is a black screen with the words BBC Radio Asian Network
During a chat with BBC Asian Network, the star spoke openly about how the experience has shaped who she is today

However, a few weeks later an older male actor invited her to his home under the guise that he would help her progress with her career. Instead he assaulted her, she wrote in her book.

The predatory actor has since died.

The comedy star, known for shows including Goodness Gracious Me and The Kumars at No 42, did not report the incidents to the police and did not tell family or friends as it "was the culture" of the industry at the time.

She recalled: "When I have talked about this incident to other women, particularly of my age, they've all said that happened to me and a lot of them have never talked about it because it was part of the culture.

"The 70s, 80s and 90s, it was absolutely part of the culture.

"You wouldn't even bother to report half of these things because A, you wouldn't be believed and B, everyone was doing it."

News imagePicture shows: Unidentified actor, Meera Syal as Madame Marlene, unidentified actress, Nikki McInnes as Lily, Peter Gallagher as Little Bernard and Sheila Steafel as Celestine Venus in The Rising of the Moon, the second part of the new series of the detective drama, The Mrs Bradley Mysteries. When a travelling circus stops at a tranquil village, the knife throwers partner is stabbed to death, prompting investigation by Mrs Bradley.
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Syal also starred as in The Rising of the Moon episode of The Mrs Bradley Mysteries

Rather than turning away from the industry, Syal said she found strength and support in women's groups and began helping others.

The star added: "I got involved with Newham Asian Women's Project and Southall Black Sisters. I began campaigning because these issues became personal and I wanted to create South Asian women that roared.

"All of that came from the fury I felt at what had happened to me. It did change the course of my life."

Syal was born in Wolverhampton in 1961 to Indian Punjabi parents, who had moved to the UK from New Delhi. She later attended Queen Mary's High School in Walsall.

Last year, Syal was given a damehood in the King's New Year Honours for her services to literature, drama and charity.

News imageThe Kumars at No 42 - Picture Shows: Ashwin Kumar (VINCENT EBRAHIM), Madhuri Kumar (INDIRI JOSHI), Laurence Llewelyn Bowen and Sushila Kumar (MEERA SYAL) TX - BBC TWO Monday 27 May 2002 The Kumar family return for another series of their award winning show.
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One of her most famous roles was in The Kumars at No 42

Joining the BBC in the 1990s, she rose to prominence as part of the team behind the broadcaster's sketch comedy, Goodness Gracious Me!

In 1993, she wrote the screenplay for the comedy-drama film Bhaji On The Beach, and two years later she starred in the Channel 4 romantic comedy film, Beautiful Thing.

The award-winner was a key writer and actress on the 1996 show, and later helped to bring Bollywood to the West End, by co-writing Andrew Lloyd Webber's Bombay Dreams in 2002.

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